September 10th, 2007
Focus On What You Want
Before I met my husband and best friend, I had had enough of toxic relationships that were going nowhere. My sob stories of failed relationships expanded more than a decade. Finally, I decided things were going to change. I had to undo the thought-pattern that was keeping me stuck, which was this, “I have to do everything myself because nobody really wants to help me.” I then imagined how good it would be to have a relationship with someone who had my best interest at heart and who I could be myself with entirely. I pictured all the elements of what I wanted in my ideal relationship and daydreamed about the details. I even created a list of the qualities and characteristics I wanted in this relationship so my eyes could see it on paper. I then firmly decided I would settle for nothing less than what I’d envisioned, totally trusting and acting as if I knew for certain he was on the way. Only then did he appear.
Coaching Tips: If you want your life to change, you need to shift your focus and change your thinking. Imagine yourself enjoying the things you desire as if you already have them. You will then attract into your life the pictures you hold foremost in your mind. And be patient. We live in the world of time and space. We can create some things instantaneously, like a good mood, and other things will take longer than we want them to and think they should. Little by little, you’ll become more comfortable working with your thoughts; especially when you understand that most thought don’t have instant manifesting power. There is a buffer between your thoughts and their manifestation which gives you time to make improvements and corrections as you go, and to become clearer about what you really want.
Affirm: “I can have anything I set my mind to.”
Try This: Concentrate on where you’re going and what you want to experience! Keep your mind trained on your new direction going forward! Make a list of what you really want and keep giving these desires your positive thought energy.
More on the Law of Attraction Next Week!
Yours in Abundance,
Christen
