Last week I encouraged you to make a list of what you are grateful for and what can be improved in your relationships. I want to acknowledge you on your strength for making these lists. It truly demonstrates your desire to change and strive for more, instead of playing the victim role.

Take a look at your gratitude list. These all bring joy to you. Really honor these.

Let’s look at the list of things that you wish for in your relationship. Now that you know what you want more of, you can strive to attract these things into your life. Ask yourself what each item means to you and what it looks like to have that in your relationship. Also think about what could be standing in the way. For instance, if you wish for greater communication, could it be that you are both getting lost in the busyness of life and losing track of the connection between the two of you? Or could it be that one or both of you has issues surrounding intimacy and closeness? Whatever the reasons may be, you can learn a great deal about yourself by looking within your relationship.

Next week we will look at how to involve your partner into the process as you seek greater intimacy in your relationship.

To your fulfillment,
Cara

This entry was posted by Dr. Cara Alana on February 18th, 2008 under Abundance and Prosperity with keywords .