The first step in knowing if you are ready for true love is to ensure that you know exactly who you are and what you want. Make a list of your values and what you need and want from a relationship. Include as many items as you can think of ~ things that you absolutely need, things that you really want and things that you would like to have. Do not forget the things that are deal breakers.Put some deep thought into this. Maybe all your life you thought that you have been attracted to a certain type of guy and you have never been happy. Maybe you have always been attracted to outgoing, life-of-the-party, bad boy types. Maybe you have never found the right guy because you always find something wrong with him. Maybe you have been saving yourself for the perfect man and yet, you are nowhere near perfection yourself. For example, you want a fit and athletic man who spends all of his time with you and lives in a mansion. Unless he has won the lottery or is independently wealthy, he will probably not be spending all of his time with you. He has to share his time with his job and staying fit.Writing down in list form what is important to you as you approach your ideal relationship is the first step in unraveling who you really are. It also adds deductive reasoning to an emotional issue. Seeking a relationship is easy. Finding the RIGHT relationship takes intention.In the next couple of weeks I will share with you a client success story involving this process.To your fulfillment,Cara

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