Last week you saw the list that Kelly made before she tuned in to her true self. She really took the time to look within and honestly assess what she truly was looking for. Look at it with an uncritical eye since it represents her true intentions. Likewise, you may feel apprehensive to write down certain things like “lots of investments” but if that is really important in order to support the traveling golf lifestyle that you yearn for, I encourage you to be authentic with yourself and write it down. This act of honesty and courage honors what you are passionate about and will empower you to seek what you really desire.Here is Kelly’s revised list:What I need in a relationship: Honesty, monogamy, easygoing personality, sense of humor, financial security, physically attractive (including being a golfer).What I want in a relationship: Likes traveling and taking golf vacations, a really good golfer, close to retirement age, large savings, kids grown and out of the home, no ex-spouse emotional issues, lots of investments, at least 6 feet tall.What I would like to have in a relationship: Affectionate, a home on a golf course, enjoys gardening and cooking together, no pets.Deal breakers: Smoking, excessive drinking, flirting, cheating, bragging.See the incredible difference? Since she took the time to do the soul searching that she needed to do, she was able to visualize her ideal relationship “to the tee.” (Her words, in golfer’s language)Next week, I’ll share more about what led up to the making of this relationship wish list.To your fulfillment,Cara

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